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type: daily
date: 2026-05-18
tags:
  - type/daily
---

# 2026-05-18

## Focus

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## Log

- Roxy woke up around 1:30pm.
- Roxy was planning her birthday next weekend.
- I realized her presents were an asset for the hotel stay downtown.
- Later in the afternoon we went to Nordstrom to change the size and replace one dress.
- We walked round trip.

## Diary: 3-line pressure valve

Today: Roxy woke up around 1:30pm. She was planning her birthday next weekend, and I realized her presents were part of making the downtown hotel stay feel special. Later we went to Nordstrom to exchange sizes and replace one dress, and walked there and back.
Feeling: Present with Roxy; a little practical/logistical, but in a good way.
Need: Keep birthday planning simple and focused on making the weekend feel cared-for, not perfect.
Next: Keep track of what still needs to be ready for the downtown stay.

If I have more words:
- What helped? Walking together and getting the dress/present logistics handled.
- What drained me? The planning/details could become a lot if they pile up.
- What am I avoiding?
- One thing I do not want to forget: The presents are not just objects; they support the birthday/hotel experience.

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## Links

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